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4 Mistakes to Avoid to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back

Albert Einstein said "You cannot solve a problem from the same consciousness that created it. You must learn to see the world anew."

I wrote this article to help men change the way they think when trying to get their ex girlfriend back, because using the same thinking that got you in the predicament in the first place will bring you the same results.

With that in mind let's get on with the 5 most common mistakes men make when trying to get their ex girlfriend back.

The first mistake that many men make when trying to get their ex girlfriend back is displaying neediness and insecurity

Nothing drives women away from a man more than displays of neediness and insecurity. There are obvious signs of a needy man, these include being clingy, calling too often, telling her you miss her every minute, letting her slide while she's being bitchy just cause you want her to hang around. All these are tell tale signs of neediness and will have her running for the hills. If you do any of these things now, you MUST STOP immediately.

I have friends who I've watched do this over and over again and sure enough they all got dumped eventually. I had one particular friend who used to do this all the time. We'd be out on guys' night out and he'd call her 3 or 4 times throughout the night. He'd say, "Baby I miss you... I love you". I remember telling him repeatedly not to do this. He'd reply, "I was just checking in. She thinks it's cute". I knew he was wrong, but he was so thick headed that he never listened to me. Sure enough - a few months later, she dumped him. She was actually a friend of mine as well and after they broke up she told me that she was going to search for a real man, not a needy, clingy guy like him. She actually said, "I think I'm going to start dating jerks". She said it somewhat jokingly but I knew that she basically meant it. You can't afford to come across as a needy guy or you'll get dumped and then really be needy. So if you want to get your ex girlfriend back you must eliminate this behavior.

The second mistake men make when trying to get their ex girlfriend back is seeking approval

Guys spend a lot of time trying to feel out a woman to see what type of behavior she'll approve of. Then most guys act accordingly. They think that women will like them because they stayed within her boundaries and catered to what she wants. It's almost like they wait for cues of permission before attempting or saying anything. You need to learn to stop seeking her approval. Women hate this. They won't tell you that they don't like this, but keep this stuff up and by the end of the night you'll be sure to hear, "You're such a nice guy. I think me and you can be great friends". You are a strong, confident and powerful man! You don't need a woman's approval or permission to act how you want to act and do what you want to do. You'll see that she'll respect you for it and you'll be better able to get your ex girlfriend back.

Never ask her repeatedly if she's having a good time. This is HUGE mistake that so many guys make. Act like you're on the date to enjoy yourself. Don't be overly concerned with making sure she's having a good time. The more you ask if she's enjoying herself, the more you'll seem unsure of yourself. Convince yourself that you are a fun, great guy and any woman that doesn't see it, doesn't deserve you. So to get your ex girlfriend back make sure then the next time you see her, she sees this in you.

The third mistake men make when trying to get their ex girlfriend back; becoming predictable, lacking in mystery, excitement or spontaneity

The Latin phrase Modus operandi (often used in the abbreviated form MO) refers to a person's way of doing something. The dictionary definition is; an unvarying or habitual method of procedure. Never let women catch on to your modus operandi. This is a key facet in the art of war and it works very well at keeping a beautiful woman intrigued with you. Once a woman figures out your thinking habits and patterns she will assume she has you all figured out. As she figures out your MO she will begin to grow bored and complacent then eventually leave you for something different. If you want your ex girlfriend back don't let her know why you're doing things. Let her think one thing and then do something totally opposite. A lot of times a girl will leave a guy because she finds him boring and thinks she will have him pegged in a box.

Another problem with letting a woman in on your MO is that they can develop contempt for the way think and do things. When someone thinks they have your MO all figured out they can become condescending and begin to get annoyed with your habits. They will feel contempt and purposely try to play psychological games attempting to fracture or change your MO. It's very hard to change your MO but you must if you want to get your ex girlfriend back. You've developed your MO by processing trillions of bits of information over a very long period of time (your whole life). This is why it's important to do things against your own instincts sometimes. Try to pay attention to little thing you do and say all the time and change them up. Keep on her toes.

4th mistake men make when trying to get their ex girlfriend back

From a young age we were all taught to pay attention to, follow and even 'obey' authority figures. So it only reasonable to say that we get to a point of understand the illusive obvious that women will pay attention, respect and even obey us men if we become figures of authority in her eyes.

This reason is why a taller man would on average do better with women, because as the girl is looking upwards towards him, she subconsciously goes into a state of obedience.

She will then tend to treat the man with more respect and admiration, just because subconsciously she views him as having a higher value than her.

A good way of applying this principle when trying to get your ex girlfriend back is to become an expert or guru in her eyes. How can you achieve this? Simple tell her about topics she doesn't know and keep a few rare and unknown pieces of information in your repertoire so that you become viewed as a teacher. This is simple to do and many guys don't do it.

So now that you know this make sure that the next time you see her you become the authority figure. It's the same as in picking up women and seduction, what's the number one rule??? ALLWAYS BE COOLER THAN THE GIRL!!! Be more fascinating, more knowledgeable. Go out and read some interesting books, go live a more interesting life. Once you have this knowledge all that you need to do is use it on your next interaction with her. It sounds simple right? Well then why don't guys do this? They are too lazy to learn any fascinating topics and to prepare what they will say about it. Think of a topic you know really well. Suppose it's pool, how would you talk to a woman while teaching her to play pool? Learn to speak with her the same way while discussing other topics.

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7 Techniques I Highly Recommend That Will Powerfully Attract Men Like a Magnet!

Do you often feel lonely and confused as to why you haven't found a decent man yet?

Are you worried you won't be able to find one quick enough, or perhaps your just about ready to give up dating altogether?

Whatever the case may be, all hope is not lost and I'll tell you why - love is meant to be a crazy game of odds and ends. Whereas in the world of dating - you win some, you lose some and it is what it is.

So before you begin to stress out and concern yourself over wanting and needing a man to fulfill your happiness; ask yourself whether it is truly necessary. The more you can relax and be 'down - to - Earth', the easier and better time you will have in pursuit of that goal.

The following 7 techniques are the most effective (in my experience), as well as the best compilation of dating maneuvers available in today's dating world (in my opinion).

Feel free to add your own touch of personality to each of the following, and remember to have fun!

Technique #1: Be all You Can Be -

What man wouldn't be interested in a woman who takes pride in her appearance? Be the best YOU that you can be and don't be afraid to 'go all out' for date night. Maintain your hygiene (hair, teeth, nails), lightly spray yourself with your favorite fragrance, and wear an outfit that compliments your figure!

Technique #2: Always Have Your Back -

Men are also attracted to a strong woman who knows how to handle her business, come what may. Be independent so that you are able to support yourself (this will take a huge burden off of him in the beginning once he realizes you are NOT desperate, needy, and reliant on others).

Be sure you are ready to jump back into the world of love both mentally, emotionally, financially, and physically.

Technique #3: Live Up To Your Name -

No need to change for anyone - including any potential men. You want to attract a man who will be interested in who you are both inside and out. If you fake being someone your not because you think he will like you more, it will not stand the test of time, ultimately leading to heartbreak for both sides.

Technique #4: Realize, Accept, and Radiate Your Worth -

Without letting this technique go to your head (you don't want to come off as cocky or conceited), most men seem to gravitate towards a woman that radiates confidence. Be proud of your accomplishments and be comfortable in your own skin regardless of what flaws and shortcomings you may have.

Nobody is perfect no matter how expensive their attire or the quality of their appearance, so accept what you have to work with and flaunt your best features!

Technique #5: Mask Yourself In Mysticism -

You want to give him something to think about after the date is done, plus - there is all the time in the world to discuss the details. So for now, keep your conversations with him strictly natural and care-free. No need to babble on just to avoid any awkward silence, or smother him with your excessive feelings of adoration just yet - give it time.

Technique #6: Be a Master of Seduction -

This is where a lot of women trip themselves up because they are unsure how to tap into their sensual side. As a woman, we all naturally possess this - some simply need a little more coaxing to bring theirs to the surface.

There are a variety of ways to flirt with your man; make eye contact, smile, give him a wink - these among several others, will let him know indirectly that you are into him, boosting his libido in the process!

Technique #7: Have The Time of Your Life -

Dating, love, and relationships are meant to be enjoyable, liberating, and exciting - so try not to sabotage those good feelings with your worries of rejection, disappointment, or any other negative emotion.

Don't be just another stereotypical 'girl' - interact with him, let your hair down, play video games, tell jokes, hang out at a sports bar, and the list could go on and on. Heck, the fact that you are into sports and can drink a beer would be enough to make most men want you, or at least strike a conversation - so get out there and try!

Make every man in the room do a double take as soon as you walk through the door, and watch as they practically compete with each other for your attention!

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Foreign Wives Are Better

Marriages fail more in the industrialized nations. Let the statistics speak for this. Marriage between say American men and women fail at a rate of 60%. Marriage between American men and foreign women is 20%. 60 verses 20 percent is quite shocking. What is happening here? If I had to say one cause that is more than any other, I would say it is a cultural phenomenon. American culture has changed and part of that change has affected the dynamic of the family structure. During WWII it was necessary for women to fill in for men in areas that were always done my men. Once you let the rabbit out of the hat it is almost impossible to put it back. This led to the feminist movement... and whether you love it or hate it doesn't change the fact that this movement changed our society, and this change had far reaching repercussions including marriage.

Before the feminist movement women felt that getting and caring for a family was the ultimate goal for themselves. After the feminist movement an ever growing percentage of women felt that a career was as important as having a family. The feminist movement changed the dynamic to where women felt compelled to have a career. This led to the point where many people today, men and women would look down on a 'homemaker'. Perceptions change. I'm not saying that this alone is responsible for making American women bad wife material, but it is a factor. Another factor, as I was saying is perception. Women perceived whether consciously or subconsciously that they are considered less valuable as workers, whether or not this was actually the case it still had the same affect. Women felt they needed to prove themselves, they now consider most men with a suspicious eye... like a man is always trying to get something from them. It's so bad today that if a man is nice to an American woman or buys her a gift, the women will automatically think that the man is trying to 'buy her love'.

If you don't believe me then try it out. I know most of you guys out there love to spoil your women, but the next time you date an American women for the first time don't buy her things, don't agree with her, don't tell her how beautiful she is. In general be a jerk. You will be surprised at the results. I tried this myself and went from getting burned by every American woman I dated to getting one that fell in love with me. It's shocking and depressing at the same time. In order to keep an American woman would require that I become someone else. That was unacceptable. Because of that reason alone I decided to try finding a foreign wife. My reasoning was that perhaps the 'madness' afflicting American women probably wouldn't infect someone from a totally different culture. After doing some research I chose the Philippines as the location of my next wife. It's now many years later and can honestly say I was right. I have an awesome wife who I can be myself with.

Some of you may call for my head to be violently removed, just let me say that not all American women make bad wives, there are just not that many left and they are hard to find. If you don't find a good wife by the end of college then you're pretty much out of luck. There are so many age 30+ guys out there just now realizing that the pool of available American women is a scary mess. Finding a good one is like playing a slot machine where the odds are tilted for you to lose. It is a severe challenge to find any single American women over the age of 25 without heaping loads of baggage or with a bunch of kids. On the contrary, most of the single girls in the Philippines are still virgins no matter what age. My advice to the younger men out there... if you find a good American girl in high school or college, do everything possible to keep her. For all you guys like myself... I strongly suggest you stop wasting time with American women and concentrate of finding a foreign wife.

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Women Love Crazy Guys

There are all kinds of men with all kinds of personalities. However, the more of an interesting character you are, the easier it is in your life to succeed. Especially, the easier it is to succeed with attracting women. In the ideal case, we would all be these cool guys everybody looks up to, but that's just not possible. Luckily that's might not even such a bad thing because we need variety in life and if it weren't for these uninteresting, bland, obnoxious people, everybody would be the same. Life would be pretty much boring and every date would be dull.

Every man, including me, wants to excel in a woman's eyes. Every one of us has a personality (if it's now good or bad) that differs from the others. However, some guys don't even know how they excel in a woman's eyes - they just do it and that's all! But how? How is it possible, that a guy, whose appearance is far below average, still has a gorgeous girlfriend?

The reason for it is actually simple. He has something that you might lack. He is probably very active, does many fulfilling things and probably has a hobby he totally loves. Actually, aren't we all like that? But still, the difference is that he has a beautiful girlfriend and you don't. So why is that?

Recently a very gorgeous girl said to me, that she is attracted to guys who are a bit crazy. That got me thinking and I wanted to test it. So I started to behave a bit crazy around her and it worked like a charm. These crazy, unpredictable behaviors you demonstrate to a woman make her heart beat a little faster and give her a rush of excitement. So what exactly are these crazy and unpredictable things? You probably already have your own ideas but here are some of mine.

Here are two examples from me:

1. We were watching TV at 1 a.m. with a girl at my place. Suddenly I jump up and yell "Let's go!" Before she can react to it in any way, I take her by the hand and drag her to the pool for a swim. That's not only extremely exiting for a woman but romantic as well. Very few women have done something that spontaneous and fun. Swimming at the middle of the night just like that, it's fun.

2. When walking out of the cinema at 12 a.m. one night, I made a suggestion to a girl to do something fun. So I took her to a construction site (I have my connections), where there was this building with a marvelous view over the whole city. You could see the street lights, people walking by and the whole sky from there and from the expression on her face I saw that she loved it. This was one trip to the movies for her, she will never forget.

The thing about these spontaneous ideas is that there is no need to go over the top, keep it simple and fun. Do simple thing but try to make them memorable and exiting - this is what women love the most. This kind of actions makes her come back for more and she can't wait to see you again just to experience something fun and surprising.

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